Two ears, two eyes, and one mouth. Thursday, Feb 25 2016 

What does it mean to be good? So many have the intention to be good, and in the act of doing good to one, they hurt someone else. Some pass judgement on the acts of those whom they consider to differ from them, sees it as wrong. And the same stare of disapproval will be glanced back. Yet both think they are right. that they are good.

Personally, I wish to strive for benevolence. To wish well and intend well. If I were a King I would ensure that I served my people. And served them well. I pray that I should not be affected by powerplay and politics. Such things I do not think for. They should be without any use. And yet, I find that I do not quest for benevolence. I am known to speak bluntly and plainly, even if it will cause pain to hear my words. No, I only wish to strive for benevolence.

In truth, wisdom is my desire. I judge as little as I can muster. Instead I intend to perceive. And I have become so accustomed to asking questions that people no longer notice that I have not once told them my opinion. Instead they discern my questioning as arguments, and judge me without understanding the amaurosis that affects them. That is a mistake I hope I make myself less and less frequently these days.

“Two ears, two eyes, and one mouth. Use them, and in that proportion.”

I can no longer remember whom told me these words. It was a man, one I revered. But I cannot remember whom. It matters little, because the truth of the words reached me, and I have since tried to live by them.

And why wisdom. Why cannot benevolence hold true for me? As I write it dawns upon me. Because I do not believe in good. I believe that someone might intend well, but I do not believe anything is truly good. Nor truly evil. This is not naive whimpers from someone inexperienced. No, it is more deeply embedded. There is no good and there is no evil, and there is nothing in between. There is only nature.

I cannot be benevolent. But I can reach understanding. I can become wise.



Nothing without Saturday, Oct 22 2011 

You are breaking me

I am hurting

You have no idea what you are doing to me

You are so ignorant

I hate you for it

And I am broken because you do not love me

Give me a word
A hope
A sign

I need you!
I must have you!
I can not help it.
Where are you?
Why are you?

What are we?
I can not be your lover
I need more
I need safety
I need you completely

Can you give me that?

We need to speak
Call me.
You must call me.
If I contact you, I will scare you away

I can not be without you

I can not exist

You have given me the world
Do not take it back

I beg you
Take care of me
I am fragile
I break easily

Find me

It is not a game Saturday, Oct 22 2011 

I do not love you
Do I love you?
I do not think I do

Still, I am attatched to you
You are in my mind constantly
I curl up, holding myself together
As if i would loose myself if I let go

It is your faulth
You make me like this
You do not love me

That is why I can not make myself feel
I want to
Be yours

Be mine.
Love me!
Never leave me again.

I am waiting for you to contact me
I know you will not
Not for days
And when you do
It will be to use me.

I am not your toy.

There are things you should know about me
I feel
And when I do
I feel immensely

Right now, I feel you
I do not know how to relate to you
I need answers

You confuse me!
I hate you
I can not live without you

We have been togehter twice
I have slept with you five times

I do not know the name of your brother

Who are you,
my familiar stranger?

I am not your toy!
If you shall have me, you shall have me completely
Nothing less.

I am complicated,
I am worth it
I am beautiful

Why are you not here with me now?

I love you

Am I dead? Monday, Jul 6 2009 

I am sometimes quite serious when I ask myself that question. It makes me feel despair, fear. Not fear of death itself, but what makes me feel able to ask myself that question. How can I be dead? I am still breathing. I still eat. I still shover every morning, go off for school or work, and then, when I get home… hm, that makes me wonder, what do I do when I get home? I know I do something. I must have done something, since time is still passing me by. I remember no details. Sometimes I watch pointless TV-shows – perhaps they once were interesting, but now I am pretty sure i just watch to let my brain relax – sometimes I sit in front of the PC, but I cant remember what I do, except surf the net, sometimes I read, though I have lost that feeling of putting myself in the place of the characters, feeling what they feel.

In the end, I think that is the key problem, I have stopped feeling. It is not like I have heard heartbreaks described – the emptyness – but now I have not had my heart broken, not for such reasons one would considerate, thoug. No, I am not hearbroken. But I think the feeling is a bit similar, though. A bit of the emptyness recembles. Even so, I am not heart. I have just stopped feeling. Like if I was dead.

What would trigger such a thing? I do not know. Nothing out of the ordinary, nothing to pay attention to has happened in my life. I am quite ordinary. Or at least I was. I do not say that anything has changed. Perhaps that is the reason. Nothing has changed. Still, all has changed. My life has become such a rutine to me, so still, that I have lost the ability to sence changes. The small changes.

Probably this is not making any sence. But it is what I know to be true. Nothing has changed, yet all has. The small differences. Lately – lately is an unfeir word for this description, the last three quarters of the year are more appropiate, more correct – I have grown to become anti-social. I have lost some of my friends because of it. It is all my fault. I have fallen so deep into rutines that I have forgotten to break them with small meetings, talks, depper conversations, or just social gathering. I should have remembered. I am no lunatic or anything, it is just that now I am afraid I will get all alone.

The non-excistence occured before this time, though. This is just the effects it is pulling off. It started some years ago, I guesse, not quite sure when.

I remember one time, sitting in a chair in the living room. I was alone. The sun was berely shining outside, pulling through some clouds far up at the sky. The grass was green, fresh. I think it must have been spring. The colors was so clear. I remember I could almost feel the atmosphere. Then, in the middle of nothing, I started laugh. It was just an ordinary day, but I laughed of all my hearts desire. Nothing was amusing, funny, or anything. Still I laughed. Today, I miss that presence I had. Then, I knew I excisted. Now I am not that sure anymore.

I still taste food, I still smell, I still can feel the difference from fabricks. I still pick up situations, others tone layers. I see it all, feel it all, but my mind does not correspond. I do not enjoy it the way I used to. Perhaps I am depressed, I know I was, not long ago. I didn’t tell anyone, just shield myself the more.

I am hard to get through to these days. Perhaps I should say impossible. I get angry so fast, people get suprised by my temper. I do not mean to. I snap at anything, without reason. Sometimes it confuses me. Yet, it is the one feeling which still comes to me clearly, anger. It is not the best feeling, not one anyone would choose, but it is the only one. Do not get me wrond, I do not snap at purpose. I never intend to. I just get so mad sometimes. One would not think so, but sometimes I’m even grateful for it. At least, for those small minutes, perhaps even seconds, I feel something, a piece of thin tread holding my hope up, the hope claiming I am not dead.

Inspiration Monday, May 25 2009 

I am indeed not quite sure of which words to speak. Sometimes my mind is filled with such wonders of love and conflict and tales of the mystic, or the quite ordinary. But then there also comes times when the front of m head feels like aching. I suppose this is one of those times. Still, I feel the need of expressing muself. Of which tales to tell, I am not sure, even if I once did. It is like that with inspiration, I guess. It comes and goes as it iself pleases. Yet, I find myself wonderfully in love with the feeling of great words coming to me for no semingly reason…

A quote of life Monday, May 25 2009 

The purpose of life is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear for newer and richer experience. – Elanor Roosevelt

I wish i had the courage to live life to the full…

She rules them all, She whom will be Sunday, May 24 2009 

A day long gone, I was in an inspired moment. Suddenly thoughts began running through my head. I got the nearest thing i could reach (at the time a fiery red lipstic) and wrote (on my mirror, it turned out) my words. In many ways I think these small words describes parts of what is me, and parts of what I hope one day will be. Some of it I fear, and others makes me feel awe. All done in a split second of my mind;

She Rules Them All, She Whom Will Be

Live life to the full

Dreams of true (to understand this, you must look at previous posts)

Eyes so strong, they turn fire to ice

The greater good

Hope is a string around your finger when drowning

The weapon to become

They think you are what they see you as

Honour in power

Strongness in numbers, is underestimating the few

Eyes see, tongues do not speak

In the deepest of thoughts, lies few things to be spoken of

And in the end, who can tell what it all means. It is what it appears to be, or do you underestimate them?

10 things which gives me joy Saturday, May 16 2009 

1: Books. Few things are so entertaining and educational as books. I love to read.

2: Understanding the mind. Yes, you read correctly. How we think of ourselves and how we judge others. How one action with one intension, affects others plans for fulfilling their intensions. Is there any wonder the mind interests me?

3: Summertime and summershine. I do not think there are need for any further commenting on this one.

4: Work. I do not mean the work itself, but the feeling you get afterwards, when you know you have contributed to something greater than yourself. That is a feeling i love.

5: Hot chocolate on an winter day. The snow is falling outside the window, the stars shining, the fire sparkling. That is when a cup of hot chocolate tastes the best.

6: The annual barbeque. Few things I look more forward to. Every beginning of spring break, I go with some friends to some Islands by boat, where we swim in the ocean, light a fire and tell stories around the campfire. We play and laugh and tell and taste and smell and live until darkness creeps up our backs. And being from Nothern Europe, the sommer sun lasts until well past midnight.

7: With nothing to do. That is something which gives me joy, truly. I absolutely love the feeling of knowing there is nothing for me to do, no obligations, no strings and no chores. The few days I spend doing nothing at all, I think are the best of my life.

8: The beauty of colours.

9: Family dinners. I am glad whenever the family joins for dinner. We often spend much time after finishing the meal, just sitting by the table talking. Talking of times past, times to come and the pleasures of the moment.

10: Future. I look at the future brightly. I want to accomplish so much in my life. The only worry is that I will not have enough time to do it all. One can not wait for the dreams to come to you, one must chase the dream. One must live lifte to the full.

Self – credit Wednesday, May 13 2009 

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Goodnight my someone Tuesday, May 12 2009 

Goodnight, my someone,

Goodnight, my love,

Sleep tight, my someone,

Sleep tight, my love,

Our star is shining it’s brightest light

For goodnight, my love, for goodnight.

Sweet dreams be yours, dear,

If dreams there be

Sweet dreams to carry you close to me.

I wish they may and I wish they might

Now goodnight, my someone, goodnight

True love can be whispered from heart to heart

When lovers are parted they say

But I must depend on a wish and a star

As long as my heart doesn’t know who you are.

Sweet dreams be yours dear,

If dreams there be

Sweet dreams to carry you close to me.

I wish they may and I wish they might

Now goodnight, my someone, goodnight.

Goodnight, Goodnight.

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